Okay, as most of you (who read this) know.. i have been on a weight loss journey for a while now, only really been getting some where in the last year or so... but finally getting there - my hippo status is hopefully lessening ;)
Anyway the reason for this post is really just to vent... so a guy, who is on a weight loss/ get healthy journey himself posted a list of what he is looking for in a partner, on Facebook, he is a part of (and a leader) in a network of people who are on mission to get fit etc etc.. anyway he posts things on the list with a bracket and either (NEGOTIABLE) or (NON NEGOTIABLE)
on his list... like number 4.
TIGHT ASS (non negotiable)
now it has taken me a few days to realize why this has annoyed me so badly... there are literally thousands, of male and female people in this group- now unless you have been training for A LONG time or are genetically blessed as a female you will not be happy with your ASS ... so this post has served to discourage majority of the women on the group... that although we are training and so on - we are not yet good enough for a man to like us?
Just cos my ASS is not yet tight or i am unhappy with my ASS does this mean I am not good enough?
Not only that, being on the journey himself surely he knows he still has wobbley bits and stuff - like REALLY dude ...why use the platform you created to make thousands of woman who are "not there yet" feel like they are not good enough? JUST SAYING !!! keep that krap to yourself man... or for "guy talk"..
Any hoo... each to their own .. haha needed to put on paper - Feel better. Vent over. Thanks...
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